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7 Lies That Keep Parents From Praying, #7

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The seventh lie that keeps us from prayer is this…

7. “I don't have time to pray, because I have so much to do." "My thoughts are so busy that I can't focus." This is the lie of busyness. We say we're too busy, but what we are really saying is... "I am made for this world only. I’m not an eternal creature with a heavenly perspective.”

If we love people we are going to be busy. We see this in Jesus’s life! There is a really helpful quote in this section of Paul Miller's book that says “Prayer doesn’t offer us a less busy life­. It offers us a less busy heart.” By praying, we can experience God and His peace in the midst of our busy lives.

How can we have a heavenly perspective when we are living in this world? We can pray for love as we go to discipline our children. We can pray for a wisdom when we have no idea how to respond to an attitude of disrespect. We can pray for peace when we are feeling overwhelmed by the demands of our children! Colossians 3:1 says, "If you have been raised with Christ, set your affections on things above. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God."

This world seems so real to us! But it is passing away. It is not true reality for us. We should not be consumed by the things of this life because we have died to this world, and our identity, our lives, are hidden with Christ in God.

The response to busyness is believing you pray as one who is not of this world.

When we are tempted to believe that the things of this world are more pressing and important than eternal matters, we can pray this Psalm which keeps an eternal perspective on our journey through life:

 1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.

Psalm 23

The good news is, there is forgiveness when we repent of these lies and believe truths. And as we wrestle through these doubts, God is gracious to draw near to us in the midst of them.

The 7 lies are adapted from Megan’s notes for the Child Dedication class. Our Child Dedication services are Sunday, October 21st. Come join in the celebration!